Forgiveness Vs Forgetting
In life, we are presented with challenges that we would rather not face, people can do things to shatter trust and it can break us for a while. However, if you chose to forgive someone and want to rebuild that trust then, for them & for you, you have to look past the bad things and live in the now. Try to forget as much as possible because if that terrible thing they did is brought up time & time again then in essence it is happening in your head repeatedly. This person should know they’ve done wrong - if they’re still in your life - so there’s no need to mention it all the time. If you want to forgive then forgive. No, you won’t be able to forget just yet but at least try. Obviously at first you will be questioning everything which is normal but by the time you are willing to forgive & move forward then you must try to do just that.
